Top 10 Most Popular Dating Sites

Compare our top 10 pick of the best online dating sites in the UK. Each website is ranked by its popularity (UK Traffic Rank) score, which is a good indicator of how many active members it has. We've also indicated those dating sites that have ODA membership as this provides an additional level of trust.

UK Traffic Rank lowest score is most popular. Last updated on

Dating Site Features ODA Member UK Traffic Rank More Info
Match.com
  • The UK's best known dating site and responsible for hundreds of thousands of relationships!
  • Great search facility and (new) profile boost to increase visitors
  • 'Match Nights', free meet ups for members & their single friends
Yes 384
Full Review
eHarmony.co.uk
  • One of the best dating sites for professional singles who are looking for long term serious relationships
  • In-depth personality matching system and free matches in your email
  • Guaranteed 14 Day Refund if you're not satisfied!
Yes 1256
Full Review
DatingDirect.com
  • Shares the same members and features as Match.com
  • Both sites cost the same, so it dosen’t matter which one you join
  • Email and instant messenging
Yes 7476
Full Review
Afrointroductions
  • Leading african and interracial dating site in the UK
  • Meet thousands of single African women from the UK and worldwide looking for romance and marriage
  • Email, instant messenging and video chat
No 6718
Full Review
encountersdating.co.uk
  • Online dating site for the Times and Sunday Times news readers
  • Most members are well educated professionals
  • Email and instant messenging
  • Customer support line
Yes 13118
Full Review
Sugardaddie.com
  • Connects wealthy, successful and beautiful people together
  • Free to browse member profiles and send winks
  • No automatic billing renewal
  • As seen on Good Morning America and Richard and Judy
No 27894
Full Review
fitness-singles.com
  • Fitness-singles is an online dating community for active singles who wish to meet like minded dates, friends or work out partners
  • Free to browse member's profiles and show interest
  • As featured in 'USA Today', 'Good Morning America', 'The Times' and more
No 18321
Full Review

Christiancafe.com
  • Well established Christian dating site with over 2000 success stories
  • Free to browse member's profiles and send winks
  • Email, instant messenging, chat rooms and forums
  • Communicate for free with their 10 Day Free Trial
No 18958
Full Review

Loveandfriends.com
  • Loveandfriends appeals to well educated professionals who are mostly from the London area
  • Send a limited number of messages for free
  • Discourages married people who are only looking for casual relationships
No 15144
Full Review
Interracialdatingcentral.com
  • One of the best dating sites in the UK for those who seek interracial romance
  • Free to browse member's profiles and send winks
  • Email, instant messenging, chat rooms and message boards
  • Advanced search and matching system
No 55128
Full Review

Comparison Table Key:

UK Traffic Rank Scores are provided by Alexa.com and are a good indication of a dating sites popularity. They are calculated using a combination of average daily visitors and page views to a website from users from the UK over the last 3 months. The website with the highest combination of visitors and page views is ranked 1 in that country.

ODA Members are members of the Online Dating Association (ODA) which was set up in 2013 to ensure high standards of behaviour by dating service providers in the UK. ODA members are required to abide by the ODA code of practice which includes having appropriate arrangements in place to deal with any complaints and queries.

Why Try Online Dating?

There are many reasons to try online dating and we've listed our top 5 reasons below:

1. Online Dating is Booming

Online dating is now big business and has a become a mainstream way of finding a new partner with hundreds of dating sites to choose from. Our modern way of communicating with each other on PC’s, tablets and smart phones has fuelled this boom in online dating. The latest research also indicates that one in four relationships now start online.

2. Fits in with your busy lifestyle

As our work lives become increasingly busy it can be hard finding enough time to socialise to meet that special person. Online dating allows you to search and communicate with people at a time that suits you without getting in the way of your busy lifestyle. You can even use dating sites on the move with your mobile phone. Many of the bigger of sites now having dating apps that you can download to use from your android or iphone smart phone.

3. No fear of rejection

It can be difficult to pick up the courage to approach new people in bars and clubs as the fear of rejection can hold you back. You don't have to worry about this with online dating as the person you are emailing is also looking for a date and if they aren't in to you then that's ok too as there are plenty of other 'fish' online.

4. Meet people outside your social circle

As we get older it can get increasingly harder to meet like minded single people within our immediate social circles. The big advantage with online dating sites is that they give you the opportunity to meet more single people and make new friends outside of you're social circle.

5. Saves you money

Some people don't like paying for to use dating sites but when you calculate how much money you spend on travel, drinks, food and entrance fees to socialise in bars, clubs and more, dating sites are comparatively much cheaper. Some dating sites will offfer free trials too and you can always try out a free dating site first to get an idea of how online dating works before signing up to a paid site.

Is Online Dating Safe?

Online dating is a very safe and enjoyable experience as long as you follow some basic do's' and don'ts. We've listed our top tips to staying safe online below:

1. Choose a reputable site

Your first step is to choose a well-known reputable dating site like eHarmony or Match where there will be plenty of active members and you're less likely to encounter any issues such as billing problems. We also recommend paid dating sites over free as they have the most genuine members whereas with free dating sites where you don't have to provide a credit card to identify yourself are more frequented by scammers.

2. Keep your personal information safe

Registering is quick and easy these days and you can even use you're Facebook login details but remember not to provide any personal identifiable information such as your full name, and home address in your profile or to any other members before you meet them. Be cautious of anyone on the site who seems too good to be true as they probably are and could just be after your money.

3. Meet Safely

When you're finally ready to meet up for a date make sure it's in a public place and tell a friend or family member where you are going. Ask them to ring you during your date so your date know's someone is looking out for you. If you feel uncomfortable during you're date don't be afraid to leave earlier too. You can always make up an excuse like you're not feeling too well. Even though you may have chatted for a while remember they are still stranger when you first meet them so follow your instincts and don't get drunk either.

Read our top 10 online dating tips to get more advice and how to get the most out of online dating.

Why compare with us?

Top10datingsites.co.uk has been comparing dating sites since 2007, and we currently provide over 30 detailed reviews of the most popular UK sites. We rank dating sites by their 'UK Traffic Rank' score as this provides a good indicator of how many active members belong to each site. Our Traffic Rank scores are completely unbiased as the source of this data is provided by an independent company, Alexa.com.

We continually strive to list only the most trusted dating sites and filter out those ones that use unscrupulous tactics to encourage members to subscribe. If you suspect any of the websites we've listed to be acting in such a manner, please contact us. You can read our minimum criteria for being listed here.

We last updated our UK traffic rank scores on 21 June 2015. Match.com are still at the top with an improved score of 384.

This month a new addition to our top 10 list is 'Fitness-singles.com' which at 7th place is aimed at singles who are interested in a wide range of fitness actvities.

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